Good morning shinies. Oh, things to do today, but not that much. Woke up early due to emotional hangover last night, after dealing with the kiddos last night. Stupendous errors were made (not by me!) but by others involved in the situation, like tornado's friend accidentally texting a text TO the tornado meant for the tornado's husband. I talked to the tornado and while my "this is borderline personality dx" pinging alarm had been going off for some time, it was confirmed. Then my sis told me the husband was in some unappealing to me FIELD so THEN I reamed out my sis kinda because the tornado was doing odd things like sending me screenshots of her texts and well.... I was like, um, this would have been useful information, sis. I guess she plays around with it so much it's not like a thing to her... Only it is.
Also, I'm sorry but I only deal with BPD for PAY, and most certainly not long distance, even with the capacity of a friend not ANYTHING else but also CERTAINLY not without my malpractice active. No thanks.
So then the husband texted at dinner asking if I could talk to the tornado. I texted back, Certainly but I need to know what tornado would like to talk about, I need you to inform tornado that I have spoken to you today in the capacity of supporting her well being, and finally, I would like you to be aware that I am in no position, given where I am located and in what capacity I am functioning to provide the type of assistance tornado requires, although I am happy to help her in discussing her needs and assisting her in locating the care she needs."
Tornado was really obnoxious yesterday afternoon and is also a lawyer, I felt bad doing it but I knew what to do. Oddly enough, I did not receive a phone call. Because, I'm sorry tornado I've been dealing with Borderline PD for 17 years, and you act the way you did yesterday, that is what you get. Boundaries.
I really just want to block the lot of them but I can't I also need those texts. Not that I did anything wrong, but meh. My sister, more amusingly wants to involuntary the lot of them.
Anna