Probably not worth your time disclaimer:
Oh thank Goodness the husband agreed we could do all our benefit elections (I can keep Medicare for up to 8.5 years after I return to work, provided my disability remains, and I have a feeling my bipolar is not going anywhere) so can the husband. So, we have two sets of benefit elections to do and I really have to do my research because there are some WAY better plans than United's AARP plan, which we only got because most of our doctor's accept it. Now that we will have double insurance, (Cigna) both of us, well, we can go for the really super ones for medications and have zero copays. Ever.
It makes my Sunday considerably less hectic, plus also less chance of a Giant Argument. So I all I gotta do is shop and pack and do yoga. I would say, "Today is gonna be easy" but like, you NEVER say that, I have found.
Tomorrow may be less easy because the husband seems intent on ruining my sleep cycle this weekend. Friday night he like, did not cook dinner until I arrived, even though I was totally updating him with "I am here on the drive with this amount of time left." I guess I should have added "I am also hungry and cranky so get dinner in the oven you ......!" But, I thought it wasn't necessary.
Last night he invited me into the bedroom and factoring in our normal "time frame for intimacy" I was like, okay I can take my meds afterwards. But he's been pouring a lot of concrete, it made him sort of Hulk-like I guess, but I was over a half hour late to take my meds. For a more pleasant reason, but I don't do well without 8 hours sleep so the next three days are gonna be tiresome getting on schedule.
At least it wasn't the 3 am phone update, but we are gonna have a little chat and it will be called, "If you don't get to bed on time, you can sleep until you decide to wake up. I cannot do that. It is not fair of you to do this to me."
That's not what the end of the conversation is gonna sound like, I'm fairly sure, but like I may start there. Hmm. Maybe I will leave him out of the equation and just talk about MY sleep needs, that might help.
Of course, he could go to "It is your choice to sleep." He'd probably say that about bedroom time too, "It was your choice not to get up and like, take your meds you should have kept an eye on the clock...." or something. If he does that, I am going to pretend to fall asleep halfway or so through the next five times we go to intimacy land.
Because I'm just asking for his like, ASSISTANCE, not acknowledging the fact that I apparently have the ability to go unconscious any time I want. I wish I had that super hero like trait, "Deep Sleep Anna!" and my costume could be made of pillows, but it in fact takes several deep sleep medications taken in a precise order, and some rigorous concentration. Otherwise, I can go like 6 weeks without sleeping. That is my max so for, I have a feeling death would have followed soon, but it was unpleasant enough for me to not like, go for some personal record or whatever.
Anna