That's perfect, actually.
As much as I like to "argue" politics as a past time/hobby, (I do tend to be socially liberal i.e. I don't care who marries who, etc.) and fiscally conservative (don't spend money you don't have and don't buy stuff you don't need, which is probably most stuff) ...but there really are just some politicians I personally dislike a lot.
I don't watch TV because I don't HAVE TV.
How I find reality is I just look around my region, state, neighborhood, and see how people are doing. The majority of every day Americans. How are they
really doing?
I grew up in the Eisenhower/Kennedy years, and if somebody worked full time, and gave an honest, earnest effort, they could go home after their 8-9 hours and were able to put food on the table, keep a roof over head, enjoy their family, and have the basic comforts of life (could buy a new refrigerator w/out having to eat beans n' rice for 5 years), and were not wiped out and put out on the street if their child had a medical emergency or their car blew the engine or their spouse got cancer.
There weren't luxury condos every other block, and rents were affordable to someone like my Mom who was a schoolteacher. Houses were places to live in, to raise your family, not investments to "flip" with ever-increasing price tags. Most everyone truly was "middle class".
I believe it was because people had REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS. Now, everyone wants to be a you tube -instagram- reality TV millionaire or something.
Families in neighborhoods were able to solve problems together and amicably, by collaboration and reaching consensus. Billy stopped going too fast on his skateboard if Molly agreed to not let her slobbering dog roam the neighborhood jumping on everybody.
It really WAS just that simple. It's about realizing that your needs are not the only needs, your way is not the only way, and that sometimes,
everybody has to give up something to get something.
It's called compromise. It's what successful marriages are all about.
TV and social media haven't "connected" people at all. People really are going to have to come together at some point. Collaborative efforts really always work the best. Anyone who's been on a problem-solving project at work knows this. You are often forced to collaborate with people you don't even like or agree with. More people should be put in that position, so they can learn something. Chances are, if you can't get along with members of a small team then you won't get along in a larger team, either.
When you learn to get other people's input, and respect what they have to offer, then you find solutions. Hierarchial, paternalistic, king-of-the-jungle stuff never turns out well. Listening works.
Truth is found by using your eyes to
look at the world around you, and using your heart to
feel what others are going thru.
The problem is that we all have filters, called 'bias'. We all have to be pretty self-honest to see our own. We all have them. Some just are in a deeper rut than others.