Older Folks and Vaping Back Porch - Part 2

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Janet H

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What a day. I had everything planned and organized and then Miles decided he was going to rearrange everything. He picked Christmas eve to have a growth spirt or whatever. He either cried or nursed since last night. He was a miserable little elf most of the time, except for his little 15 minute naps. He's only 15 days old so I'll cut him some slack. I got on here a couple times today and every time I got caught up and was ready to reply, got called away. By now there should be chapter headings. I'm not even sure what I wanted to reply.


First off, I don't post often. I generally sit in the background and glean what I can from what everyone else has experienced. It's just the way I am. Basically, I've never been a "joiner".

I can recall, a couple of years ago, asking when my taste would return. Janet and others told me to be patient and it would all come back. Well, in that rare instance, she was wrong - but it didn't matter. I learned to just go with my binary taste senses and accept that some things were alright and the rest just plain sucked. I graduated to DIY simply because there wasn't any point in buying stuff that I couldn't taste. Admittedly, I'm somewhat jealous of those that can actually differentiate between flavors but I'm never going to be one of them - so I muddle on in my own manner, dealing with vaping in the only way left to me. Regardless of the fact that I can't taste anything, I'm a diehard vaper....

This has nothing to do with what I'm posting about but there are so many new folk around now that I thought I'd reintroduce myself (although, those that have been here forever have long forgotten that I was ever here to begin with...)

It's been a bad couple of days. My dad died yesterday and I have a thousand mile drive ahead of me the day after Christmas, just to be with Mom for a bit, so I'm feeling sorry for myself in a way - but I do love the song.......

Welllllll, most people's taste returns somewhat, even if it's not what it used to be, but then none of us are what we used to be. Glad you can accept your taste now and actually, you're probably saving a bundle by not trying to buy every new flavor of the week!

I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. I'm sure your Mom will be glad to have you there. It's so hard to loose a parent. Even when you know it's coming, it's life changing. I hope you can find peace in his passing and know that my heart is with you for a safe trip home and that you and your Mom can find strength in each other.

Merry Christmas to my friends on the porch! It's been very uplifting sharing our difficult times over the past few days, knowing we're not alone. I thank you for that!!!!

A very special Merry Christmas to Miles!!!! Janet and Mike must be ecstatic!!! For baby's first Christmas...

Couldn't agree more! And thank you so much. We would have been even more ecstatic if Mile's wasn't so miserable today!

Oddly enuf, I always drive alone. It's a thousand miles so I stop once. I need to refuel and do the necessary potty break. I don't drink anything (suck on cough drops) and refuse to relinquish control of my "bodily functions" so I just drive. I'm a maniac behind the wheel. I don't allow people to get in my way for more than a straight road allows. All that clips my wings is the plates on my car. I have to be nice to the national constabulary - don't want them getting their fluff in a huff. It's all fun when I realize that there are a couple of folk following me and trusting me to drive "right". I'd drive behind someone else but normally, they don't move as fast as I want.... During the summer, I've had people peel off from behind me and stick their arms out the window and way goodbye. Always makes me feel good....

The weird part of packing is that I can do most of it while I'm still online. Only the vape stuff takes time. I have to spend a couple of days to figure out what I'll likely need. Then I have to put things aside and together and make sure I'm not forgetting anything.

I used to dread the drive but now it's become nothing. It takes a day but the more I do it, the more I recognize the landmarks. What's kewl is seeing the change in the birds. Once it gets cold, the vultures go south and are replaced with hawks and I do love to watch hawks. No one seems to realize that hawks hang around the roadways because cars make the rodent population scurry and they wait for their opportunity for lunch... (been driving for a long time).

I'm typing because I'm procrastinating. I have a ton of things to do to get ready for the road tomorrow and none of them are the least bit fun. I really am a master at procrastination....

Well.... I guess I 'd better get my .... in gear and set things up for the pre-dawn beginning of my trek. Did you know that you can begin a run at night and finish it at night as well? There was a time when I lived up (way) north and I'd go to school at night and come home at night. Of course, I also took pictures of the sunset and the sunrise was a half an hour away...... See? I can babble with the best of them.....

I babble too much when I actually start - I should try to avoid starting. Sorry....

I hope that all of your celebrations have been wonderful. And I hope that you've dealt with your year without regrets. Merry Christmas porch-bound folk and know that someone is always watching and caring about everything that happens in your lives.... (without judgement)

Gathering the vape stuff can be daunting, but after awhile you get pretty efficient and it won't take nearly as long. When it comes to packing Mike starts early so he can take a 3 months worth of vaping supplies for a 1 week trip. He's gotten much better, he only takes 1 vaping suitcase now...

You can drive 500 miles without a break? Whoa! After 200 miles I get out of the car and it take me a few tentative steps before my ankles cooperate enough that I don't fall flat on my face. Could be a real problem if I'm trying to get to the facilities...

That's pretty cool that you notice the behaviors of the birds. We tend to forget about nature when we're busy doing other things.

Believe it or not I count you guys as my best group of friends, you guys are the only ones who understand where I'm coming from on a lot of things.

I did get me a shiney for Christmas, my loving wife got me a big fogger, I look forward to playing with it when the festivities are over.

Good for you! You musta been a good boy!

Well, I certainly had my Christmas put in perspective for me with a phone call from a lady that I know in another state. I was driving home from work Christmas Eve when I received the call. I'm sharing this for myself as well as for anyone else who, like me, thought they were struggling. This lady is a double amputee, with no family but a husband in prison. She lives in a small 3 room apartment and just had all her clothes stolen from her by a woman who was supposed to be helping her by cleaning and washing her clothes. She lives on $799 a month. Bless her heart, she wasn't whining when she called me. She just related her story. I felt like a selfish brat after I thought about my little piddly complaints quite a few posts ago just before Christmas. The Creator DOES have a way of setting us straight sometimes, doesn't He?

At any rate, it was a peaceful day for me. I got up when I felt like it and sipped on Hazelnut coffee. Then me and the Breeze dog headed over to my brother's house and had a lovely dinner of ham, beef roast, rice dressing, and cornbread dressing with a HUGE side helping of swapping tall tales. :laugh: I'd badly love to nap right now, but I KNOW if I do that now, I will not sleep tonight. Oh well....maybe I'll do some music cruising.

Nothing like looking around and seeing how blessed we are, even in the midst of our own troubles. Glad you were there for your friend.

Hope you're able to get a good nights rest. And if not, just relive the HUGE side of swapping tales and the good times to keep you company. Might as well be happy as long as your eyes are open.

Merry Christmas!

My daughter's been here off and on, but basically going elsewhere with friends to join in their festivities. I've decided to spend my extended period of peace and quiet cleaning out and re-organizing all my stuff.

I've pulled everything out of the cabinets and closet and am slowly putting it in boxes, labeling the boxes, and deciding how to fit it all back in. (Throwing away bits and pieces along the way.)

I've been here reading a little today, but trying to resist as best I can. I need to get this stuff put away before kids are back!

Hope everyone is having a wonderful Xmas!

Cleaning out stuff is almost an art. It takes fortitude and determination and maybe a glass or 2 to ease the pain. Then all you need are the right size boxes to put it all back - and labels!! What a feeling of accomplishment.

*I wanted to send some sort of holiday greeting to my friends and
colleagues, but it is difficult in today's world to know exactly what to
say without offending someone. *

**Best Regards (without prejudice),**

**Name withheld (Privacy Act). *

That's a riot. Very sad, but still very funny! What's wrong with people these days, nobody laughs anymore! Everybody seems to be too busy dreaming up ways to be offended. Sheesh.

I got up this morning, got on the 'puter briefly, went to Mass (the homily was too long-- he wanted to make it extra good :unsure:). Went over to the VA to sit with a hospice patient, and just got back home. He isn't doing very well-- I was told to call in the morning before heading back to town to sit with him again in the morning.

A good way to spend Christmas when no family around could have sent me into depressive thinking. C'ya'all. Happy holidays, and enjoy everything you have! Even life itself.

Good for you! You were "family" to that hospice patient - that's priceless.
 
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Alright Christmas is over - is it Spring yet?

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Well, one more Christmas filled with making wonderful new memories. It was just Hubby, sis and me but also received calls from my other sister, step-son and both grandsons :banana: We woke up to a very heavy frost so we kinda had a white Christmas but it ended up a beautiful sun shiny day. Actually the first sunny day we have had in about 3 weeks so we really enjoyed it.

I also enjoyed spending quite a bit of today with all of y'all. (((((((((Hugs)))))))) for everyone.

Janet, your Broccoli Casserole was a BIG hit. We loved it and of course I passed the recipe on to my sister. She agreed that it is a keeper. Thank you :)
 

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Good for you! You were "family" to that hospice patient - that's priceless.

Of course, I already had met staff on previous assignments, and they are also family-- a close-knit bunch of people. I was really tired last night, so went to bed soon after I made that post. Nice to not have to cook anything, either. Although supper was gross, I had plenty of cookies. :p
 
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the season has not yet ended. Jan 1 is the appointed day. Some people may say Jan 6, festival of the three Magi.

And then there is me. . . Oh I changed my avatar so my decorations are taken care of.
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Good Morning Porchers and Porchettes. And it is Friday on top of that. Can the day get any better?

Janet I am so sorry. You are just going to have get little Miles up to snuff on the importance of you being able relax on the porch. JK There are so many little things going on in a growing baby. But I know you agree that they are all wonderful. I love babies. The fussy ones. . . not so much. Looking back, my babies slept so well. I don't know if it had anything to do with it but I always had a heating pad in the crib. I warmed their little sheets before I laid them down and they would just snuggle and drift off so fast. I warm my sheets and it takes me 2 hours go to sleep so it doesn't work on everyone. Oh well, the moral of my story is. . . yes you cut Miles some slack. bahahahahaha
 

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Oh, I dunno, my son said he's having the time of his life now that he can be the Santa to his step daughter. But I reckin that's kind of the same thing......playin Santa for our kids, brings out the kid in us.

I have to agree with you. I thought Christmas morning was fun but didn't have a clue until my "daughter" Tori came into our lives. She was 12 and Christmas morning got really fun.

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Good Morning Porchers and Porchettes. And it is Friday on top of that. Can the day get any better?

Janet I am so sorry. You are just going to have get little Miles up to snuff on the importance of you being able relax on the porch. JK There are so many little things going on in a growing baby. But I know you agree that they are all wonderful. I love babies. The fussy ones. . . not so much. Looking back, my babies slept so well. I don't know if it had anything to do with it but I always had a heating pad in the crib. I warmed their little sheets before I laid them down and they would just snuggle and drift off so fast. I warm my sheets and it takes me 2 hours go to sleep so it doesn't work on everyone. Oh well, the moral of my story is. . . yes you cut Miles some slack. bahahahahaha

Of course you know what's good about other people's fussy babies... You can give them back! ;-)

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So sorry little Miles had such a bad night/day. Is she nursing (if that's not too personal). Just wondered, cuz it could have been colic.

Yep, she is nursing. Doesn't seem to be colic, he's just having one of those periods where all he wants to do is eat and is just not happy. If it keeps up I'm sure they'll have him to the doctors. He's been pretty good so far and is putting on weight better than expected. Hopefully it won't last long and he'll be a little angel again. Our DIL said she was a fussy baby, hope that's not inherited.

Good Morning Everyone.

Remind me again why we do not take down the decorations now???

Ours usually come down on Jan 2, but this year our daughter is flying home to see Miles so we're going to leave it up for her. She's leaving this morning for Switzerland, will get back to Denver the evening of Jan 3 and will turn around and fly here on Jan 5 so I figure she'll show up here exhausted. Since Miles wasn't cooperating our son and DIL didn't get to check out their stockings so we will still be celebrating Christmas. Guaranteed that all the decorations will have to disappear soon after that. When Christmas is over it's over! My mother had a crazy friend who would leave her tree up until Easter - no kidding. :facepalm:
 

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Good Morning Everyone.

Remind me again why we do not take down the decorations now???

hehehe

And then there is me. . . Oh I changed my avatar so my decorations are taken care of. I warm my sheets and it takes me 2 hours go to sleep so it doesn't work on everyone. Oh well, the moral of my story is. . . yes you cut Miles some slack. bahahahahaha [/COLOR][/B]

oooooooo.....love your avi! Fix me please. lol told ya ya mighta created a monster.

Tell hubby to rub your belly, see if that works!!

Yep, she is nursing. Doesn't seem to be colic, he's just having one of those periods where all he wants to do is eat and is just not happy.

So glad it's not colic. Definitely hope it's not hereditary, and hope he feels better soon.


Mornin everyone!
 

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Good morning.......

Our Christmas mornings are usually wonderful, but this Christmas we all had decided that gifts were too paramount and were taking away some of that warm fuzzy family feeling. Even our grandkids......4, 6 & 8 didn't get the amount they normally receive. It was amazing how they reacted. We played and giggled and just sat around and talked and laughed some more.

It's the feeling they'll remember, not the gifts....
 

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Absolutely! If I'd had it a while, it would be different. Being brand new, the more I thought about it, the madder I got. Of course it does seem to be a common issue with the Vamo, I may get something else instead, just to avoid the problem. Wish I had known before I ordered it. I was aware of threads going bad and hoped the V5 would have addressed that issue. But looks like it's just not a good item, all way around. Think I'd be better off with something else, but I'm limited to finances. :(

I've had my V5 for about 6 months now (KSD maker), and no problems with it. I did put a thread adapter on it right away, so the normal wear and tear isn't on the Vamo threads, as I wasn't - and still am not - sure the issue had been addressed.

There is nothing sadder in this world than to awake Christmas
morning and not be a child.
- Erma Louise Bombeck (1927-1996)

So the "trick" is to reconnect to the inner child, still living at some level inside each of us. IMO, a part of us that we shouldn't ever let go of.

Good Morning Everyone.

Remind me again why we do not take down the decorations now???

Well, heck, leave them up. It's only 364 days until Christmas, after all!

Good morning.......

Our Christmas mornings are usually wonderful, but this Christmas we all had decided that gifts were too paramount and were taking away some of that warm fuzzy family feeling. Even our grandkids......4, 6 & 8 didn't get the amount they normally receive. It was amazing how they reacted. We played and giggled and just sat around and talked and laughed some more.

It's the feeling they'll remember, not the gifts....

We had a gathering of us, MIL, and 3 of our 4 kids and their partners gather next door (MIL's house), the 4th and hear partner in New York couldn't get out here :) First time in too many years that that's happened, usually just one or two of them. Grandkids - who are also adults - are scattered in So Cal and MA, couldn't make it (well, didn't expect them to!)

And the memories are, for us, what it's all about anyway. Family, fun, food. (Arrgh, toooooo much foooooddd!! Think I'll need to fast until next year! :laugh:)
 

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We lit the Menorah on Monday night (missed doing it the next and last night of Chanukah) and had Christmas dinner several days in a row. Judeo-Christian hookups are common in my family.

My niece delighted us by suggesting to her twin brother, my nephew, that they wait up for Santa together on the 24th. They'll be turning 30 in 2 weeks, hah! Nephew guided us and we got special treatment at The Optimist on Tuesday night, because he works there. It's impossible to order anything there that isn't fabulous.

Heading back to NC this evening, where vape goodies were delivered in my absence. I felt sorry for baby bro and mom, who had a 6am flight out this morning so didn't even go to bed last night, but they both safely made it back to their places in NJ before conking out. Happy Holidays to all!
 
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