Here is a story military related that I found quite touching.
The hubbys great great uncle was a WWI vet. He passed at the age of 102. At the grave side they did an actual 21 gun salute (21 guys firing). The family invited those guys to join us in the church hall for the traditional supper. I was talking to one of the younger guys that had been part of the detail. Thanked him for his service and for his kindness in being part of the ceremony. He told me that they had so many volunteers for the detail of a WWI vet they had to draw names out of a hat and that he felt privileged to attend. Really touched me that did.
That is really nice! After I got out of active duty, I went into the Naval Reserves for a couple of years. I did a lot of ceremonies like that. Usually I was one of the guys folding the flag that was draped over the casket, then I would present it to the family member (usually the widow). I remember this one particular lady, her husband had been a WWII veteran, I gave her the flag, thanked her for her and her husband's service and whispered a few more words that I hoped would comfort her. She reached up from her chair and hugged me tight, smooshing the flag between us. After the ceremony she pulled me aside and thanked me for the ceremony and invited us to the supper. I don't think any of us in the detail had ever been treated so kindly! It is always a very sad occasion, but I really do miss being able to honor those who have passed in that way.