Even though he is in the AF he is always stationed at an Army base or a joint base. That's why she is at Ft.Bliss. That's his job. I think she will be OK it's just being so far away it sucks. the doc thinks she is having a bigger problem with anxiety then depression. So they are called FRG's. I'll check that out for her. I know she can get a little support and she has a friend there that her husband is a TACP just like Jacob and is also over there. I'm pretty sure she will snap out of it. It's just overwhelming I'm sure. They have a big beautiful house there she is trying to get his dog better so she will be there when he gets home plus her dog, taking care of the place and driving his truck occasionally to keep it running good, working full time with a lot of OT around the 1st of the month cause it's a mortgage company. She has a full plate and she's never had to deal with all that by herself before.Legs, they should have some family readiness groups FRG's they may call em sumpthin else in the AF. But they can have one person come talk to her. Not to get in her business, but women just like her, but ones that have sent their hubbies, sons etc on quite a few deployments and know what she's going through. They can talk, maybe go to lunch, and just reassure her and try to ease her fears.