Older Folks and Vaping Back Porch-Part Six
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I'm not surprised that people who did the Jitterbug need large print. Some of 'em are well over 100 years old.
Yup, got a bunch!
Yes, always striving to improve, etc. But, this time it seems I've lost a lot of ground.
The first time I took the Briggs-Meyers, I was shocked to find out that I was an extrovert (by a little bit anyway). This time I tested as extremely introverted. That's a drastic change. Especially since I think I've matured into being less introverted, not more.
So, obviously something's going on. My feeling overwhelmed has gotten way out of hand!
Working on a few projects today to see what I can do about it.
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That's my whole point .. if you're into the whole mask thing, anyway ..
You mean a pretty girl with a mask, right?
Sum of us are nearin' 70...
Took both 'evaluations'. Ergo, why I clicked no 'likes' re da exercises...
I got a couple local grown maters last time I went to the grocery. The vine tomatoes that I've been getting are totally decent, but these here ones are so meaty and tasty. No, you don't need to tell me how I can grow my own... ain't gonna do it.
If I could only have one spice or herb, I think it would have to be crushed red pepper. Big ole turmeric and crushed red pepper ground turkey burger with 3 slices of mater. Yum.
If I could only have one spice or herb, I think it would have to be crushed red pepper. Big ole turmeric and crushed red pepper ground turkey burger with 3 slices of mater. Yum.
We're missing Miles man so we got some FaceTime in today. After the session Michael, our son, texted me that Miles would point to the iPhone, say Pop-pop, and sign 'more', then repeat. Touched my heart it did to hear that.
OK, serious Iffy here...
Need some help from our Porch Hive Mind!
Long story short (as possible)...
Several weeks ago, I contacted and met a gent after recovering his tackle box with his fishing license his grandson left at the 'office'. He enjoyed the 'ramp no mercy table' and started to visit fairly regularly.
This afternoon I witnessed a hale & hearty gent (early 60s) basically flip an 'off' switch. One moment he was an engaging conversationalist, the next a 'crumpled' man.
I noted his transformation and kept watch. He wandered off to the seawall and sat down like a deflated balloon. I approached and asked if he was alright. He looked at me like I had slapped his face. After a few comforting words, he admitted he was having a recurrent bout of depression. And he couldn't believe that I was concerned.
He said no one had ever picked up on his 'challenge' and was ever so surprised and appreciative of my concern. We sat for many minutes letting us both absorb what had just happened. I told him that I wasn't probing, but willing to talk with him more if he wished. He said I would like to speak with me again regarding his affliction in the future.
Without going into our conversation, I'll add this much:
He is taking meds to no avail (type unknown at this time)
Ongoing issue for much of his life
Docs & meds are BS (his words)
My question for any of our porchers, has anyone here dealt with a person in this condition? Any assistance would be deeply appreciated!
With all the crap going on within our nation and around the globe, this is my 'backyard' and hopefully I can do something about it!!!
Grateful thanx in advance...
Need some help from our Porch Hive Mind!
Long story short (as possible)...
Several weeks ago, I contacted and met a gent after recovering his tackle box with his fishing license his grandson left at the 'office'. He enjoyed the 'ramp no mercy table' and started to visit fairly regularly.
This afternoon I witnessed a hale & hearty gent (early 60s) basically flip an 'off' switch. One moment he was an engaging conversationalist, the next a 'crumpled' man.
I noted his transformation and kept watch. He wandered off to the seawall and sat down like a deflated balloon. I approached and asked if he was alright. He looked at me like I had slapped his face. After a few comforting words, he admitted he was having a recurrent bout of depression. And he couldn't believe that I was concerned.
He said no one had ever picked up on his 'challenge' and was ever so surprised and appreciative of my concern. We sat for many minutes letting us both absorb what had just happened. I told him that I wasn't probing, but willing to talk with him more if he wished. He said I would like to speak with me again regarding his affliction in the future.
Without going into our conversation, I'll add this much:
He is taking meds to no avail (type unknown at this time)
Ongoing issue for much of his life
Docs & meds are BS (his words)
My question for any of our porchers, has anyone here dealt with a person in this condition? Any assistance would be deeply appreciated!
With all the crap going on within our nation and around the globe, this is my 'backyard' and hopefully I can do something about it!!!
Grateful thanx in advance...
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We've got a bunch of Hardee's around here and it's the same thing so we see all the commercials. Lots of cleavage for a burger commercial. Not that I'm complaining mind you.
Matt, glad the family is safe and hope you can sell the motor home quickly.
@2legsshrt , sounds like ya had a great time!
@Iffy , don't have any advice other than to talk to him and listen to him.
Hum, what else? Oh, Geordi won another point today! 2 singles down, 13 points, to include 2 majors (a win worth 3 or more points - points determined by the number of dogs in the classes) to go!
@2legsshrt , sounds like ya had a great time!
@Iffy , don't have any advice other than to talk to him and listen to him.
Hum, what else? Oh, Geordi won another point today! 2 singles down, 13 points, to include 2 majors (a win worth 3 or more points - points determined by the number of dogs in the classes) to go!
Iffy, there must have been a trigger to his "off" switch. Make careful note the next time it happens. Sometimes it is a romantic relationship gone sour, or never having had an adequate loving relationship. Shot in the dark, here.
I got home from church today, and a friend surprised me here, I had just seen her at church. We spent the afternoon together. Marriage on the rocks.
I got home from church today, and a friend surprised me here, I had just seen her at church. We spent the afternoon together. Marriage on the rocks.
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@Iffy the serious;
It really isn't enough information for responsible advice to be given. For example, the guy is saying the meds do no good, but it's possible that he'd be worse off without them.
It's also possible that he's over-medicated or on the wrong medication, or even that he's been misdiagnosed and shouldn't be on medication at all.
That said, I think you're giving him the best possible medication: your time, concern and attention. It can become a drain to spend increasing amounts of time with a depressed person. I know this from both sides of the fence.
It really isn't enough information for responsible advice to be given. For example, the guy is saying the meds do no good, but it's possible that he'd be worse off without them.
It's also possible that he's over-medicated or on the wrong medication, or even that he's been misdiagnosed and shouldn't be on medication at all.
That said, I think you're giving him the best possible medication: your time, concern and attention. It can become a drain to spend increasing amounts of time with a depressed person. I know this from both sides of the fence.
He is so cute! Poo-pop. That's precious!We're missing Miles man so we got some FaceTime in today. After the session Michael, our son, texted me that Miles would point to the iPhone, say Pop-pop, and sign 'more', then repeat. Touched my heart it did to hear that.
Well said.
It's also sometimes the case that, on the meds, the individual feels "fine" for long they decide to off them, since they "don't need 'em any more."
But having a non-judgmental ear, especially from, basically a stranger, has to be beneficial.
Oh Iffy, I wish I had something to contribute. It's wonderful that you were sensitive to what was going on with him & courageous to approach him about it. Having someone recognize that he has a problem & step up to help is probably a tremendous lift for him. Having someone to talk to without being judged could be helpful. He could have issues you don't want to be involved with, too. Be careful.
@MattB101, so very happy to know that your daughter et al are safe! Thanks for the update.
@2legsshrt, your day sounded wonderful! A wedding, grandchildren all over the place, a lovely venue ... What could be better!
@MikeE3, Aww. How precious little Miles is!
@DancingHeretik, I hope your projects help you to feel better! It's interesting to me that when I least want to do anything is when I most need to (for my own sense of well being).
@Iffy, sometimes just knowing that someone cares is enough to motivate a depressed person towards professional help. I suspect you already know that ... Thank you for caring.
@2legsshrt, your day sounded wonderful! A wedding, grandchildren all over the place, a lovely venue ... What could be better!
@MikeE3, Aww. How precious little Miles is!
@DancingHeretik, I hope your projects help you to feel better! It's interesting to me that when I least want to do anything is when I most need to (for my own sense of well being).
@Iffy, sometimes just knowing that someone cares is enough to motivate a depressed person towards professional help. I suspect you already know that ... Thank you for caring.
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