AA blowhard? Against meds? You coulda gotten him an original edition of the big book, he might actually say thank you.
I have noticed (in myself) that drinking enabled me to like, do things I might not do sober, but it didn't change my personality THAT much (well, it did, but for other reasons like that freaky messed up Bipolar I psychosis episode.)
But, my brain remains my brain, so like, that's what all the rest of the AA steps are for, to change your fundamental ability to be a decent human being and that is why you have a sponsor.... I have one because she like, has a brain that is not attached to my issues and can go, "Are you high?" Not to mention like, a ton of therapy and whatnot.
Hmm maybe he needed to go to AA there's nothing worse than a drinker becoming a non drinker and then they suck more. Believe me, I know, that is how my father in law is and every time he uses the "N" word I just want to kick him in the face. I mean, I don't. I keep waiting for him to die already but he is a stubborn cuss. See? I'm sure my sponsor would be like, "Pray for him Anna" or whatever, but she isn't here right now so like, I'm just patiently waiting.
My in laws have tons of money stuffed away and longevity is in my husband's gene pool. They have stated they plan to die after they have spent their last penny and I BELIEVE them. I'm not RESENTFUL I mean, I don't care they can have their dough I mean they EARNED it but I am like "did you HAVE to sock so much away?"
I mean my MIL had a freaking lung removed because she got lung cancer (she didn't even smoke it was where she worked) and not only did she LIVE she like lost 200 lbs and is jetting about like she is a teenager.
Anna