The only reason the statement "the kids are only doing what we did" would stir up an argument is that there are plenty of vapers with enough skin in the game to sort of hypothetically claim it's "harm reduction only," or some such nonsense. I get it, vaping probably saved MY LIFE, and I get it's a serious issue.
Oddly enough I did not start smoking until age 18, although frankly I did plenty of other dastardly, only for grownups, sometimes not even ADVISABLE for grownups type stuff and "got away with it" in the sense of government intervention (although I did have to do a sort of "life repair process," as it were) but as far as I am concerned, any harm reduction that works has got to be pleasurable enough that teens are naturally going to want to try it, a certain subset of them.
I think it's pretty harmless, comparatively, and if we suddenly find out vaping mutates teens into like, baby cows or something that would be tragic, but also, we would be raising a generation of "responsible only" teens, so that might be useful as far as like, fixing some societal ills-- a generation ruled by logic, listening to their elders, etc. I personally think that would be BORING too, but heck, it could have some benefits.
But I'm an oddball libertarian who sort of thinks kids should make mistakes, and parents should let them, and not freak out about it, because most helicopter parents have NO control by that age, and it makes them batty. So they start blaming the Juul because they don't want to admit that they feel they have "failed as a parent" and etc., while still trying to be minutely involved in every aspect of their teen's life. That makes it worse because the teens hate their parents already.
I had no clue my kiddo was smoking and he was like 17 when he asked for a vape. I am proud to state I got him one, although I did insist that he not use it in such a manner as to cause me legal issues.
He did FAR worse stuff than vape and yet we weathered those storms and he's like a productive member of society now. Somehow, I don't think he'd be where he was without a, well, less invasive approach.
I feel really bad for teens these days. Life is more confusing than ever before and like everyone is freaking out on them vaping. At this point if I had nothing else in my life, I would want to travel from school to school and have kiddos trade me cigarettes for vapes, not that I really need to at this point, they're doing fine obtaining their own, the government KNOWS this, too. They just want them to switch to cigarettes, and killing off the vape market entirely is just a side benefit, frankly.
Anna