Older Folks and Vaping Back Porch - Part 2

[my4jewels]

Well more bad news about sister in law. Her tumor is growing so fast they had to put her on a bag it's pressing against her colon so much no. It's amazing how fast some types of this disease works. We sort of want to go see her but my wife doesn't know if she wants to see her in this condition. She is pretty out of it. I guess she tried to get out of bed last night and fell so she is pretty much bed ridden. My wife and her were pretty close and she doesn't want to go there and start crying and make her feel worse. He is crying so much that he is afraid the police will pull him over and think he's messed up on something. He is really scared about being left alone so it's a sad affair all the way around. We don't know what to do about going there before we leave. It has taken her so fast. In the last month she has gone from wanting my wife to cook her some great food to barely getting by.

I am so very sorry about your sister. Such a cruel disease.

 

[my4jewels]

As for me, I am 2 1/2 weeks out from my last chemo. Most of my side effects have subsided, except the fatigue. I will be having surgery to remove the one area that is still growing. I am very curious to see what it is. I have developed some nasty lymphadema in my left arm and chest area. I am going for lymphadema massage 2 times a week right know to help the lymph find other pathways out of my body. Otherwise, I can't complain, I feel pretty good. Keep the prayers coming.

Last weekend, my family, friends, and neighbors worked to get our wood cut and ready for this winter. Over a 2 day period, we had dozens of folks with chainsaws and logsplitters in our driveway. Even the youth group from church came to help stack the wood in our yard. 5 1/2 cords were cut, split, and stacked. We are so very grateful for their generous spirits in spending time doing this for us. Hubby usually does it bit by bit, but he has been so busy taking care of me, he hasn't had time this year.

 

[3mg Meniere]

He is crying so much that he is afraid the police will pull him over and think he's messed up on something. He is really scared about being left alone so it's a sad affair all the way around.

Is he getting grief counseling and meds if he needs it? The family needs care, too. Seems like they need someone to stay with them and give him some relief. Especially if she is trying to get out of bed and in danger of falling. Is hospice coming in?

All my prayers.

And for you, too, Jewels.

 

[Kim B.]

2legs, I'm sorry to hear that things are not going well for your sister in law. Thinking of you guys and sending hopes for strength and peace.

 

[Kim B.]

Hi there Jewels, glad to hear that you're feeling good. I smiled when I read about the firewood, sounds like you've got some good people surrounding you.

 

[Slots]

Well more bad news about sister in law.. It's amazing how fast some types of this disease works. .

Sorry to hear Legs. Your wife probably doesn't want making the visit to be the last mental picture of someone so close .. can't blame her there.
Our thoughts are with you


4jewels This video was a real treat. Thank You .. I've never seen a bat feeding in the flowers.
So glad to hear from you, especially about all the help your receiving by people who care.
It's heart warming to know that despite the daily news, all hope is not lost for humanity.









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[amoret]

Sorry to hear about everyone's health problems. My thoughts are with you.

On a lighter note, I came into the living room tonight and couldn't help but wonder why



there never seems to be



enough places to sit



around here.



You think maybe I need some more furniture?

 

[bigbells]

Jewels, have you moved, or did I just not notice previously that you're in Maine? For some reason I had thought you lived out West somewhere.

 

[bigbells]

Sorry to hear about everyone's health problems. My thoughts are with you.

On a lighter note, I came into the living room tonight and couldn't help but wonder why

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You think maybe I need some more furniture?

Love love love love your cats and dog.

 

[Flowersoul]

I'm not sure if this video will show up here, but I'll give it a try. A beautiful video for all of the hummingbird and nature lovers. This is a real treat.

Jewels, that was a real treat to watch.......beautiful. You remain in my prayers, and so glad to know you are feeling a bit better.

Well more bad news about sister in law. Her tumor is growing so fast they had to put her on a bag it's pressing against her colon so much no. It's amazing how fast some types of this disease works. We sort of want to go see her but my wife doesn't know if she wants to see her in this condition. She is pretty out of it. I guess she tried to get out of bed last night and fell so she is pretty much bed ridden. My wife and her were pretty close and she doesn't want to go there and start crying and make her feel worse. He is crying so much that he is afraid the police will pull him over and think he's messed up on something. He is really scared about being left alone so it's a sad affair all the way around. We don't know what to do about going there before we leave. It has taken her so fast. In the last month she has gone from wanting my wife to cook her some great food to barely getting by.

That is really such a tough road to hoe, so my prayers will include your sil and her family.

 

[MikeE3]

Well more bad news about sister in law. .....

That's a tough situation for your wife even though she feels that way 'now' about visiting her - she may feel worse 'later' for not doing it. Someone said getting 'help' for her husband - that sounds like a good suggestion.

Last weekend, my family, friends, and neighbors worked to get our wood cut and ready for this winter. Over a 2 day period, we had dozens of folks with chainsaws and logsplitters in our driveway. Even the youth group from church came to help stack the wood in our yard. 5 1/2 cords were cut, split, and stacked. We are so very grateful for their generous spirits in spending time doing this for us. Hubby usually does it bit by bit, but he has been so busy taking care of me, he hasn't had time this year.

Wow! That's awesome that so many folks came together to help you and your husband get ready for winter. Nice, really nice!

Sorry to hear about everyone's health problems. My thoughts are with you.

On a lighter note, I came into the living room tonight and couldn't help but wonder why


You think maybe I need some more furniture?

he, he, amoret - our cats have decided their favorite places to squat are 'our' favorite places to sit. If either of us gets up, that fast one, of the cats moves in to claim the space.

 

[Janet H]

Well more bad news about sister in law. Her tumor is growing so fast they had to put her on a bag it's pressing against her colon so much no. It's amazing how fast some types of this disease works. We sort of want to go see her but my wife doesn't know if she wants to see her in this condition. She is pretty out of it. I guess she tried to get out of bed last night and fell so she is pretty much bed ridden. My wife and her were pretty close and she doesn't want to go there and start crying and make her feel worse. He is crying so much that he is afraid the police will pull him over and think he's messed up on something. He is really scared about being left alone so it's a sad affair all the way around. We don't know what to do about going there before we leave. It has taken her so fast. In the last month she has gone from wanting my wife to cook her some great food to barely getting by.

Oh Legs, I'm so sorry. Prayer continue for her and your family.

 

[Janet H]

Jewels, that was a lovely video. I'd seen it before, but it was so cool to watch it all over again. TED does some really amazing stuff.

So glad to hear you're feeling better. How fabulous are those people who have come by to help with the wood!! Bless their hearts. And not only does it help you out, but I'm betting they all felt wonderful for having done it. I call that a definite win-win situation!!

 

[DavidOck]

Sorry to hear about everyone's health problems. My thoughts are with you.

On a lighter note, I came into the living room tonight and couldn't help but wonder why

You think maybe I need some more furniture?

Not unless you're getting more critters....

 

[MattB101]

Well more bad news about sister in law. Her tumor is growing so fast they had to put her on a bag it's pressing against her colon so much no. It's amazing how fast some types of this disease works. We sort of want to go see her but my wife doesn't know if she wants to see her in this condition. She is pretty out of it. I guess she tried to get out of bed last night and fell so she is pretty much bed ridden. My wife and her were pretty close and she doesn't want to go there and start crying and make her feel worse. He is crying so much that he is afraid the police will pull him over and think he's messed up on something. He is really scared about being left alone so it's a sad affair all the way around. We don't know what to do about going there before we leave. It has taken her so fast. In the last month she has gone from wanting my wife to cook her some great food to barely getting by.

2legs, it was hard to "like" this but I wanted to let you know I read it. I am really sorry and will keep all of you at the top of my prayers.

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[MattB101]

he, he, amoret - our cats have decided their favorite places to squat are 'our' favorite places to sit. If either of us gets up, that fast one, of the cats moves in to claim the space.

Ours do the same thing. I hate to say it but, I think it's cause it smells like mommy or daddy's ....! Critters can be weird. Maybe it's because they are then guaranteed our attention.

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[MattB101]

MikeE3,
Just sent you a PM. Thanks
Matt

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[FlamingoTutu]

Tutu,
I take a raft of various inhalers that help my breathing a lot. Sometimes though the weather seems to mess it up and pollen doesn't help. For those times I have an oxygen generator that I use. Usually a dose pure O2 gets me back on track.

Sent from my Galaxy Note 2 Android phone on a keyboard that waaayyy too small (or my thumbs are waaayyy too big).

I've got the inhaler too. Getting a new, different one also. Mine is all allergies so not even close to what you are going through. Can sure sympathize though.

We had scattered thunderstorms yesterday so it seemed like every time I got on, BOOM! Long on, log off, log on, LOL.

I came in here at a really bad time. Congratulations to those getting stronger and my sympathy and thoughts to those suffering.

Legs, we haven't even met so apologize for being so direct and tactless. Your wife needs to visit her friend, she going to regret it forever if she doesn't. Can only imagine how much it hurts her friend that she hasn't visited. I'm pretty darned sure the friend won't hold it against her when she cries one bit. How would your wife feel if she was the one that was sick and her friend didn't want to visit? I've seen the fallout from not visiting for similar reasons and the emotional toll is devastating. Wishing for the best for all of you.

 

[garyoa1]

I've got the inhaler too. Getting a new, different one also. Mine is all allergies so not even close to what you are going through. Can sure sympathize though.

Legs, we haven't even met so apologize for being so direct and tactless. Your wife needs to visit her friend, she going to regret it forever if she doesn't. Can only imagine how much it hurts her friend that she hasn't visited. I'm pretty darned sure the friend won't hold it against her when she cries one bit. How would your wife feel if she was the one that was sick and her friend didn't want to visit? I've seen the fallout from not visiting for similar reasons and the emotional toll is devastating. Wishing for the best for all of you.

I dunno, flame. Kind of a personal thing. When my first wife was diagnosed she went from great to... gone in about 2 months.

I remember standing by the coffin with my daughter and she asked if she could touch her. I said sure. But said she'll feel really cold. She hesitated and never did touch her. I never did ask if she regretted it. But I kind of regretted telling her that. Just being protective... or over protective. I dunno.

Thing is, the time progresses in slow motion and warp speed all at the same time.

 

[bigbells]

I dunno, flame. Kind of a personal thing. When my first wife was diagnosed she went from great to... gone in about 2 months.

I remember standing by the coffin with my daughter and she asked if she could touch her. I said sure. But said she'll feel really cold. She hesitated and never did touch her. I never did ask if she regretted it. But I kind of regretted telling her that. Just being protective... or over protective. I dunno.

Thing is, the time progresses in slow motion and warp speed all at the same time.

Well said, Gary! The thing is, there are going to be tearful regrets no matter what is done or not done.