STOP
Take a breath. Get a drink of something icy and sit! You are making too many advance plans. Nothing you plan for tomorrow is going to happen in the orderly, listed way you are counting on. Life is messy. End stage disease is even messier. Those of us in that condition welcome every new day that has us in it. We don't plan ahead.......we celebrate that we have the opportunity to spend time with the folks that love and support us. batteries and beds don't really matter. If something needs doing there will be somebody who really wants to help who will ask if there is anything they can do. Answer?........"YES, please and thank you!".
For those things that only you can do learn to compartmentalize. Quit assigning everything to your "immediately" compartment and put some things in the "tomorrow" or "whenever" compartment. Your main and only focus for the foreseeable future is to make absolutely certain that Ginny's daily experience is as easy and as comfortable as humanly possible by presenting her with your smiling face and her favorite warm beverage every morning. No matter the circumstances on any given day you have to exude confidence. Stop doing the Chicken Little thing!
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