No flames from me, either.
I believe that bad things happen to good people. I believe that God set the world in motion, established the laws of nature, and grieves mightily when His children are in trouble, sorrow, need or adversity. I believe that sometimes the laws of nature result in miracles (see my signature

). I don't, and can't believe that some prayers are better than others, or some people more deserving, such that God says, "Ah, Robin will get some divine intervention, today, but Mary can suffer." I don't believe that it is God's will that I or Kaez's bride or anyone else has cancer, anymore than I believe that Bergen Belson or Treblinka or Dallas or 9/11 were all part of God's plan. That is not to say that I don't turn to God to ask for help, for strength, for courage -- I do. Daily. I ask for a great care team, medical advances, scientific break
throughs. I ask to be kinder and gentler, and more loving. Sometimes I ask for chocolate, but I know that one's on me.

. I ask for all manner of natural miracles, and I see evidence of those miracles all around me.
It's that grace thing. The greatest miracle of all.