Conversely, Vapez, it could be that together might be easier? If she loves you, she'll be upset that you "hid" it from her. It's normal for those who love each other to worry, part of the package. But to not know what you're going through because you deliberately hid it could make for some rough spots...
Absolutely! When my husband wrecked his bike and broke his foot, the first I knew of it was when he walked in, on crutches; a lady at his work had picked him up from the wreck, taken him to the hospital, then brought him home. I was FURIOUS!!!!!!!!!!! He never even bothered to CALL ME! I WAS FURIOUS!!!!!!!!!
Andria