So I'm forced to answer a red X I can't simply reply "I disagree with this statement."?Perhaps if you use the "X" it automatically brings up a "reply to post" dialogue, if the character count in the reply is too short the X is rejected.
So I'm forced to answer a red X I can't simply reply "I disagree with this statement."?Perhaps if you use the "X" it automatically brings up a "reply to post" dialogue, if the character count in the reply is too short the X is rejected.
If you are going to insist on a statement to disagree then you might as well eliminate the red X. If someone wants to disagree with a post let them disagree with a post. Many will want to shy away from possible confrontation, hence the safety of the X.
So I'm forced to answer a red X I can't simply reply "I disagree with this statement."?
You just X'd me (which is cool) but you then explained why, which I think is the decent thing to do.So I'm forced to answer a red X I can't simply reply "I disagree with this statement."?
Or, the use of dislike without posting a reason as to why results in a 24 hour banishment from ECF.
Very valid, as sometimes it is that simple.I disagreed simply because I feel that would be extreme... and sometimes it's just a minor difference of opinion that, if explained further, would result in more arguing instead of a mature discussion. In other cases, it's so simple to understand why someone may disagree/dislike something... example... "Chocolate is the best ice cream" ( or whatever )... certainly if someone felt another flavor was better or just didn't like it a quick click on disagree/dislike wouldn't really need an explanation.
Life's too short to worry about such minor issues... if they want to explain the reason it's fine but if not just move on. Taking steps when someone is abusing the system is one thing, but requiring explanations for their selection is not right either.
So I'm forced to answer a red X I can't simply reply "I disagree with this statement."?
If a responsible person uses the red X, to me it would be imperative to go on with a reply and a statement of why that was used. The benefit of having this rating, is a reader who may be just skimming, will be able to see the rating at a glance.I have to disagree with you on this point. IF someone disagrees with a particular post, I honestly and truly want to know why. Was it bad information? Was it illinformed? Was it dangerous advice? OR, was it simply a way to say "I dont like you"
I learn from two people with differing opinions, I am likely to sit through three pages of no I'm right, in order to better understand 1) what the disagreement was over, was it a misunderstanding of wording? Or something more serious? 2) To better understand the topic as a whole.. even if I agree with one side, perhaps there was something I missed? Perhaps I was the one misunderstanding the wording, and going forth using similarly incorrect wording.. and 3) just a better understanding as a whole. With no counter, I might not have as full a grasp on the topic as I could have.. areas unthought of or unexplored. In short, I learn.
In conclusion, I find it cowardly, extremely unhelpful and flat out backstabbing to disagree and walk away without clearing up as to why that was. Its unhelpful both to the poster, and to the community at large which sometimes does just read and desire that better understanding. It leaves people hanging on a nagging thought, what bit of knowledge have I missed? Even if they are in agreement with the post in question.
In conclusion, I find it cowardly, extremely unhelpful and flat out backstabbing to disagree and walk away without clearing up as to why that was. Its unhelpful both to the poster, and to the community at large which sometimes does just read and desire that better understanding. It leaves people hanging on a nagging thought, what bit of knowledge have I missed? Even if they are in agreement with the post in question.
I have used that red x once followed by a quote of the post I disagreed with and my response...
I have to politely disagree...there are times, circumstances and individuals that might elicit a disagree from me in which "discretion is the better part of valor". It is often better to walk away than to engage, when you know that everything forthcoming will be a snarky comment rather than a civil discussion...
A long time ago, as a noob to ECF, and forums...I wandered into a thread and posted an opinion..I soon learned about being flamed....for several days in a row... and was afraid to post anywhere for a period of time after that. I would much rather they had simply disagreed and went on about their conversation, than to subject me to all of the ugly posts that were directed towards me...
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If a responsible person uses the red X, to me it would be imperative to go on with a reply and a statement of why that was used. The benefit of having this rating, is a reader who may be just skimming, will be able to see the rating at a glance.
If dangerous or outright wrong info was included in that post, not all readers may go on further and read the rebuttal, and there are all levels of reading comprehension skills that visit the forum. So to my mind it is a useful tool to warn prospective readers about the information presented in that post.
The mods will know. Poor them, I don't envy their job. It'll either work itself out or perhaps go away if it proves too troublesome, I'd imagine.Oh I definitely understand it can very well be useful. However, on a forum like this will it be used responsibly?
How many people new to this forum know who is just in a vindictive mood and who is the responsible member?
How many people know, after seeing 10 red x's on a pico mod suggestion, that it is not a 'dangerous' mod?
How many people are going to know, after seeing red x's on all sorts of things around the forum, that those 3 red x's in the post on mechanical mods means that post is providing outright dangerous information?
The mods will know. Poor them, I don't envy their job. It'll either work itself out or perhaps go away if it proves too troublesome, I'd imagine.
I totally agree with you on that!![]()
It's a bit of a double edged sword...Oh I definitely understand it can very well be useful. However, on a forum like this will it be used responsibly?
How many people new to this forum know who is just in a vindictive mood and who is the responsible member?
How many people new to vaping will know, after seeing 10 red x's on a pico mod suggestion, that it is not a 'dangerous' mod?
How many people are going to know, after seeing red x's on all sorts of things around the forum, that those 3 red x's in the post on mechanical mods means that post is providing outright dangerous information?
I believe it can be very helpful, very useful so on and so forth, but I see also many potential problems too.
It's a bit of a double edged sword...If there are 15 likes on a device that is dangerous and no disagrees showing...? Equally dangerous to the new member trying to learn...